Fitness through a recovery mindset™
Fitness through a recovery mindset™

Fitness & Recovery Interview: Jen

We are BLESSED to have another individual willing to share their story in regards to their addiction, their recovery, and how they are making fitness a crucial part of their new substance free lifestyle.

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This week we get to hear from the very flexible and wonderful Jen Yockey. She is 47 years old, residing in Southern California, and has been sober since 3/6/2009. I actually read her story online about a year ago and really identified with what she said, and now I get to ask HER some questions – how surreal is that!?! Without further ado let’s get this party started!!!

  • Jen…tell us what it was like in your addiction.

    “From the time I started until I stopped, there were soul crushing moments.  I have a horrific long term memory except when it comes to my actions and lack of a moral compass while using. As I look back now, the most awful things were the loss of self, the self-loathing and the crushing feeling of hopelessness.  I had NO idea that substance abuse was even REMOTELY a problem; THE problem. The inability to connect the dots between my misery and substance abuse, as I look back, is dumbfounding.”

 

    • TELL US WHAT YOUR LIFE IS LIKE NOW THAT YOU ARE IN RECOVERY.

      “I have an amazing life that I have worked very hard for and that I am proud of.  Life has its ups and downs and I have not lived it, unscathed.  But I have, over the last 8 years, not used substances to cope with things that are uncomfortable or unpleasant.  I have learned to sit with my feelings and emotions.  I have learned to recognize how I am feeling and recognize that *sometimes* all I can do is just BE with it.  Sometimes, things cannot be fixed and some feelings are not meant to be pushed through.  I have learned that in order to feel the absolute unconditional love that I have for my son, I have to be able to bear the excruciating pain of loss and disappointment.  I can’t choose to dampen some feelings and let the others freely engulf me.  It just doesn’t work that way.  I have learned that acceptance is not approval and that I have the right to take my place and express my wants, desires and needs. And also accept that expressing those things doesn’t mean that I will get them.  I am willing and forever a student.  I crave knowledge, creativity, the ocean, peace, coffee, friendships and experiences.  NONE of this was accessible to me when I was dulling out, stuffing down and numbing every sense that I had.  Gratitude ABOUNDS.”

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  • WHAT ARE YOU DOING TODAY TO MAKE FITNESS A PART OF YOUR RECOVERY PROCESS? WHY IS IT SO IMPORTANT TO YOU THAT YOU BE FIT WHILE IN YOUR RECOVERY?

    “I have always been an athlete.  I was a scholarship athlete to a Pac-12 school and played professionally after college.  I have run a couple of marathons and half marathons.  Currently,  I  teach/practice yoga and participate in fitness bootcamps.  Even during the height of my substance abuse, I ran.  I have always felt peace when exercising.  There is something meditative about running and about pushing my body to see where it’s limits are. Even when I wasn’t ready for community, when I would isolate myself for days, I would take my dog for a walk or a run.  As far as nutrition, I started consuming A LOT of sugar when I got sober.  I never had a sweet tooth before and this was kind of surprising to me.  Sugar and me do NOT get along.  I crash really hard.  There was a battle, in the beginning because I felt as if I had given up so much and NOW I couldn’t have sugar!  I am mindful of what I eat and how it makes me feel.  That is one thing that has come in sobriety is an acute awareness of how my mind and body feel.  So, sometimes I eat things knowing I am not going to feel good.  Or I eat something that I shouldn’t but have a smaller portion.  I just pay attention.  Denial is no longer part of my behavior.  Lastly, I came to yoga and meditation about two years ago.  I don’t practice yoga for the physical exercise.  I practice yoga and meditation for inner peace.  I have a 5 year old and three dogs so there is normally a LOT of chaos.  I crave peace within the chaos; yoga and meditation provide that for me.  I have learned so much about my body and the mind/body/heart/soul connection through yoga.  This has propelled my recovery to a different level.  Awareness is a foundational piece for me.”

 

  • ANY ADVICE YOU WANT TO GIVE TO THOSE IN RECOVERY WHO ARE STILL ON THE FENCE ABOUT WHETHER OR NOT FITNESS SHOULD BE A PART OF THEIR RECOVERY PROCESS?

    “6 reasons why fitness should be part of your recovery process:

    Some of these are a MESS from using.  Fitness (along with other modalities) can assist in getting them to work in your favor.

    • Serotonin regulates sleep and appetite.
    • Dopamine is a “feel good” chemical and plays an important role in mood, energy, attitude, motivation.
    • GABA acts as your calming neurotransmitter, helping you relax.
    • Acetylcholine for processing information and memory.
    • Endorphins are feel good chemicals our bodies release after intense exercise.
    • Connection (to yourself and others). Building friendships, relationships, community in an environment that is healthy, safe and good for your body/mind/soul.”

Fantastic share Jen we truly appreciate you taking the time to share your story! If you would like to get a hold of Jen or maybe even sign up for some of her yoga classes which happen both online and in person you can see what she’s up to here:

Website: JenYockey.com

Twitter: @Jen_Yockey

Instagram: @jen.yockey

Facebook: Jen L Yockey (SoulFuel)

 

Until our next fitness and Recovery interview just remember we can accomplish anything so long as we do it just One Day At a Time.

One Meal At a Time.

One Set At a Time.

One Rep At a Time.

-Marv

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